Big Day

Waking up at 7am and it's a very grey and wet morning outside. It's really pretty when it pours in Singapore, especially when you don't have to go out.

It feels a little surreal cos I'm getting married today! Another big milestone in life. I remember always wondering about this day when I was young. Who would it be and how would it be like?

It's just the ROM today and the reception will be six months later, but for me today is the biggest day. After today I have to use words like 'Mrs' and 'husband'.

I think it's an overwhelming sense of relief actually. Relief at marrying the right person and how wonderful he is always. And relief that when the day is here I actually feel quite ready for it!

Marcus Wareing at the Berkeley

Now that I am counting down barely three more weeks to leaving London, we are slowly going through the list of Last Things to do in London Ever!

I wanted to go to Gordon Ramsay's restaurant, but I realized that he doesn't actually cook at his own restaurant, so I opted for Marcus Wareing at the Berkeley instead.

Marcus Wareing used to run Petrus under Gordon Ramsay but they split soon as Marcus started to outshine Gordon's other restaurants, and now he has his own at The Berkeley. The key draw for me was that he would actually be in the kitchen, as opposed to just having his name on the signboard.

I won't go into details of the lunch, nor did I take any pictures, but it was perhaps as fine as you could expect for European cuisine. Very soft quail pieces and foie gras for starters, main course was seabass with a crispy skin paired very nicely with the best mash I've ever had, and dessert was a brioche with walnut icecream. But the best thing were the extra little canapes and amuse bouches that accompanied the meal because they were such pleasant surprises. There was the best hummus I've ever had, foie gras with cheese (really lovely), mushroom soup with truffle foam, and a very good passionfruit jelly with lychee ice. All that came up to 44 pounds each, and we were stuffed. But it felt really worth it too because it was much more than just three courses.

The best bit came at the end when they offered to show us the kitchen before leaving. It wasn't big, but extremely organized, with about twenty chefs manning their various posts. And as promised, Marcus was right there, carefully placing slices of pink roast beef onto beds of salad, ready to serve. A beautiful chef's table had been set up at the corner of the kitchen where you could watch the food being prepared (something that I would love to experience once). We thanked Marcus for an excellent lunch, and I was really excited at having seen for myself such a world class kitchen.

The Proposal

Been meaning to blog for a long time now about the various things I've been doing in London but been dragging my feet on it until THIS happened!

We were in Barbados for our vacation (lots of sun, glorious weather, blue seas and amazing beaches), and we had gone for a breakfast buffet with Scott and his gf at Hilton. After stuffing ourselves, we went for a little walk at the beach. Nik pointed out a breakwater that extended out into the sea and said let's get a picture there.

So we made our way across the beach, tiptoed over the rocks in the breakwater and finally reached the tip. Scott got the camera and I posed with Nik for what I thought was going to be a picture when he suddenly started whispering nice things in my ear. I thought he was just being sweet as usual, until he suddenly ended with '...want to spend the rest of my life with you.' and got down on one knee.

I think I went into shock for a bit, before I said yes, and he slipped on the ring. And then for the first time in my life, I started HYPERVENTILATING. No, I didn't cry, and I really loved how surprised I was cos I did not see it coming at all. The great thing is we got it all down on camera, he had been planning it with Scott for months before we got there.

It's still a little surreal to me, but I'm really loving the feeling. There's no escaping it now, I feel I am finally all grown up.
What I also did love was how happy it made my parents, though I had no idea how much they had been worrying about it.

So now I have to learn about the complicated machinery of couplehood in Singapore, getting that flat, how to even get married, and whether to do it in India (I am so inclined). Although I'm back in London in the miserable rain, I am tiptoeing on a cloud wherever I go and a quiet little place in me just feeling blissful.

more blogging

Was hunting through Singapore's most popular blogs and felt inspired to blog more. After all this is perhaps the most complete record of my life to date, extending over the past four years.

In the future, blogs will replace diaries as a cheesy story device in films. I.e. A granddaughter uncovers her grandmother's dusty, forgotten blog somewhere online and discovers a terrible secret....etc etc etc

Anywayz, latest developments in London:

1. Nik's bike got stolen in a most shocking manner, the guy rode off on it right in front of him. And I am really proud of how Nik reacted to the whole thing.

2. Did not feel the new year began with a bang at all. Still haven't thought about my new year resolutions.

3. shOprs is officially online. I'm happy that after a year in development it's finally moving along.

4. Going to watch my first play here next week.

5. Going off to Barbados for holiday in a couple of weeks

6. It's officially winter now and it's freezing. Haven't been able to step out of the house for that reason, which is kinda sad.

Must make a list of things to do in London before leaving, feeling kinda sad really, one year has just flown by like that.

great saturday

everything came together for a great saturday! it's cold, but there was loads of sun today.

We got up, and when to the free screening of Bolt for Disney employees. It was at Empire Cinema at Leicester Square n it was the first time we were watching a movie in London so it was great that it's at THE main cinema. The theatre was huge, the 3D glasses were a trip, and the movie was alright.

Then we bought loads of stuff for a chinese dinner, got myself a beret, spent more money and headed home before the sun set (at 4pm!)

Ended with a dinner of wanton noodles and Merlin. Satisfied and happy!

set visit!

the most exciting thing I've done here at Disney so far...for two days I went on a set visit to Pinewood Studios just outside of London where they are filming Prince of Persia. I got to tour the sets, see the costumes and weapons, watch them film a couple of scenes and do some stunts, as well as conduct a group interview with Jake Gyllenhaal, Ben Kingsley, Jerry Bruckheimer and tons of other people working on the film! All the other journalists were cool and matter of fact, but it's my first time so I'm still pretty star struck and excited!

Being on the huge amazing sets, I really do miss filmmaking. It's a lot of sweating, waiting around, physical labour and all about playing a small tiny part of a really big machine, but still to be a part of such a project like this would be so great.

Oh and I got to hold the Dagger of Time for a good whole five minutes. I didn't want to put it down, I kept sidling back and picking it up again as discreetly as I could. It was the hero version, the proper heavy metal one used for closeups. It does look like the one in game and is absolutely gorgeous!

slowly floating down to general daily life, which is a little disappointing.

Last week I have managed to get to Promax conference, and even to the awards dinner. (Disappointingly, the dinner at a top London hotel is not as good as a wedding dinner in Majestic Hotel in Singapore!)

maybe all of life's questions come down to this: do you want to be a small part of something tremendous, or do you want to be a large part of something small?